Marriage, Life Celebration & Funeral Service

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1. Marriages

After 45 years of marriage, our children want us to renew our marriage vows. Can we incorporate the family in the ceremony?

We would love to be involved in preparing and officiating at a ceremony to renew your marriage vows.  You can have as many or as few people involved as you want.  We will also present you with a copy of your ceremony and Certificate of Renewal of vows as a memento of your special day.

Although we do not practice and particular faith and do not subscribe to the need to go to a church, we do adhere to Christian beliefs. Can you incorporate a religious aspect to our ceremony?

Yes most definitely.  Similarly, if you would like a particular scripture or religious teaching or prayer we will incorporate that.  There are many teachings from wise and ancient philosophers and teachers as well as traditional blessings that have been passed from generation to generation.

Are we able to plan our wedding ceremony by email and post?

YES.  Once you have made contact with me, we can complete all the necessary documents by email, fax or post.

Are you able to write a letter of support for family members applying for visas from overseas in order to attend our wedding?

YES.  We are more than happy and willing to help with this.  We cannot however give you advice or involve ourselves regarding immigration or residency matters.

Can I marry a person of my own sex?

NO.  Under the Australian Marriage Act 1961.  “Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.”  You can however, have a commitment ceremony which is similar to a wedding ceremony and you can register your relationship with Births, Deaths & Marriages, New South Wales.

Can I use my Australian Passport as evidence of identity for the NOIM?

NO.  Only overseas passports can be accepted and even then a birth certificate is preferred.

Can I use the name I am known by usage?

NO.  If you have changed your name you must register the change with the Registrar of Births Deaths and Marriages in your state through a Change of Name form.  If you use a name which you have assumed through usage, you may have trouble having your Marriage Certificate recognised by the Passport Office etc. in future.

Can they be members of our family?

YES.  They must however be at least 18 years of age?

Can we be married anywhere we like in Australia?

YES. An authorised marriage celebrant is able to marry couples anywhere in Australia.

Can we be married at any time of the day or night or on any day of the year?

YES

Can we be married if we are both under 18 years?

NO.  Only one can be under 18.  Bear in mind however that you also need permission of the court.

Can we be married in Sydney when we arrive from overseas?
Can we hyphenate our surnames?

Yes.  Once you have received your marriage certificate from the Registry of Births Deaths and Marriages, you can use that document to formerly change your name on your identification, banking and legal documents.  If you want to hyphenate your surname you can do that also.  More women are doing that these days after they get married.

Can we play our music through your sound system?

YES.  Our system is able to play MP3 or an iPod.

Can you advise about a Prenuptial Agreement?

NO.  That is not the role of a marriage celebrant.  You need to discuss this with a legal professional.

Can you assist in making suggestions for our venue?

YES.  We are more than happy to suggest different venues for you.

Can you help me with my application for a Prospective Marriage or fiancée visa?

YES.  Once you have completed your Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) and booked a date for your ceremony, we will write a letter of support to the Australian Embassy in the country of your fiancé/fiancée.  We cannot however give you advice or involve ourselves regarding immigration or residency matters.

 

Can you help us with immigration advice?

NO.  As a Civil Marriage Celebrant I am unable to offer advice on immigration matters but I can refer you to the relevant authorities or to an Immigration Agent who can help you.

Can you order our registered marriage certificate?

YES.  We can order it online for you after registering your marriage.  There is however a small fee for this service.

Can you recommend or arrange for a photographer for us?

YES.  See our links page or talk to us about your requirements.

Can you tell us about special ceremonies we can include in our wedding ceremony?

YES.  We are more than happy to give you information about ways to personalise your wedding?

Do I have to take my husband’s name after our wedding?

NO. Although it is a widely practice custom both in Australia and in other societies for a woman to change her surname to her husband’s when she marries, this is a legal requirement.   It is simply a matter of choice.  You are not legally required to change your name and many women do continue to use their own surnames after marriage.

 

Do we have to have wedding rings?

NO.  Wearing a wedding ring or wedding band is a custom dating back many generations and used in many cultures.  It is an indication that the wearer is married.  Depending on the local culture, it is worn on the base of the right or the left ring finger

Do we need a licence to get married?

NO. You do however need to complete a Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) and lodge it with me, your celebrant. .This form is usually witnessed by me at our first meeting, but may also be witnessed by a JP, Notary Public etc. and scanned and emailed or faxed and then posted to me.

Do we need to have my birth certificate, divorce papers, death certificate translated into English by a registered translator if they are in another language?

YES, a person registered with the Nationally Accredited Authority Translators and Interpreters Ltd (NAATI) will need to translate and interpret these certificates.

Do we only need 2 witnesses?

YES

Do you provide a PA system so that all of our guests can hear the ceremony?

YES.  We have an extremely good PA system and do not charge any extra for its use.  You will need to ascertain from the local council or venue manager if there are any restrictions on the use of a PA system at the venue.

Do you register our marriage for us?

YES.  We will register your marriage either by mail or online shortly after the ceremony.

How can we be sure that you are a legally registered marriage celebrant, and our marriage will be valid?

The Commonwealth Attorney General Department’s website has a list of registered marriage celebrants.  You will find our names and contact details there.

If we have already produced our birth certificates, divorce papers and/or death certificates do we need to provide them again on our wedding day?

NO

Is it a good idea to have a drink before the ceremony in order to relax?

No.  As a wedding ceremony is a legal undertaking, a celebrant is not permitted to conduct a wedding ceremony if anyone involved in the service is under the influence of any substance.

Is it possible to be married at home?

YES. Home weddings are popular and can make a very special occasion even more special.

Is it possible to incorporate symbols and ceremonies from my religious faith or culture?

YES.  We encourage couples to honour their culture within their ceremony.  We are more than happy to work with clergy from all faiths if you wish to combine your civil & religious ceremony.  Please feel free to discuss this with either myself or Elle when we meet.

 

May I be given away or presented by a person who is not a member of my family?

YES

May our friends read a poem or reading?

YES.  We actively encourage family and friends to participate in the wedding ceremony as it is these inclusions that add that unique personal touch to your very special day.

May we be married in whatever clothes we like?

YES

May we write our own Ceremony?

YES.  You can write as little or as much of your ceremony as long as it complies with the Marriage Act, 1961 of Australia.  We at Life Cycle Celebrant Services will help you prepare your ceremony.

We are a gay couple and would like to have a commitment ceremony. Are you able and willing to help us prepare and officiate at our ceremony?

We are more than happy to sit with you and listen to your ideas and desires.  We will be more than happy to prepare and officiate at your commitment ceremony that we are sure you will be happy with.  We will also present you with a copy of your ceremony and a Certificate of Commitment as a memento of your special day.  It is possible to register a relationship in NSW through the NSW Registry of Births Deaths and Marriages.  You can download a form here: Register a relationship in New South Wales.

Yes we can.  We will listen to your ideas and prepare the wording of your ceremony to meet your needs.  We will also present you with a copy of your ceremony and Certificate of Commitment as a memento of your special day.  Provided that one partner in the relationship resides in NSW, if you decide that you would like to register your relationship you can do so through the NSW Registry of Births Deaths and Marriages.  You can download a form here: Register a relationship in New South Wales.

We want to elope, get married without any fuss, just the two of us. Is that possible?

YES.  For a marriage ceremony to be legal, you only need the two of you, the celebrant and two witnesses over the age of 18.  You also need to give the usual notice etc. Refer to our Legal Requirements page.

What if I have other questions that are not answered here?

Feel free to phone, fax or email us and we will help to answer all your questions to the best of our ability.

What if we don’t want to have a PA at our wedding as we feel it spoils the intimate nature of our ceremony?

YES.  That is quite alright with us.  It’s your wedding and we will make sure that we do our best to ensure that all of your guests can hear the ceremony.

What if we want to change the date of our wedding?

Not a problem.  We are more than happy to transfer your booking fee to another date that we are available.

 

What music should I consider playing during the ceremony?

You will need a few pieces of music for your wedding.  You will need one for while you are walking down the Aisle.  You should have two or three songs or music pieces to cover the time we will be signing registers and marriage documents.  What we suggest is that it should be appropriate to the occasion.

What names do we use on our Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM)?

Your names must be exactly as they are on your birth certificate, or if previously married, your married name, or if you have a Change of Name Certificate.

Why do celebrants charge different rates for their services?

If a celebrant is offering to conduct your wedding for a very cheap rate, it most likely means that you will have an impersonal and very limited script.

Will our wedding be accepted worldwide?

YES.  Some countries however require what is referred to as an “Apostille Stamp” on each relevant document.  As this can become a very expensive exercise, you should check with your embassy or The Department of Foreign Affairs and Trade (DFAT) beforehand.

Will we be given a presentation wedding certificate on the day?

YES

Will you help with production of the ceremony, i.e. who stands where etc.?

YES.  That is part and parcel of our role as your celebrant.  We will discuss that when we meet and can arrange a rehearsal if you think that is necessary.  We also provide a table for signing if needed and a high quality PA system if needed.

2. Life Celebrations

Can I contact you if I have any further questions?

Yes, most definitely.  We are here to help you arrange the best life celebration ceremony for you and your family.

Email: info@lccs.com.au

 

I want a cultural tradition from my country of origin incorporated into the naming ceremony of my child. Would you be able to do that?

We will listen to you and get an understanding of the tradition you want incorporated and then research the tradition.  We will give you an outline of how we feel the cultural tradition can best be incorporated into the ceremony and then build it into the ceremony.  At the end of the ceremony, we will present you with a copy of your ceremony and a Naming Certificate as a memento of your child’s special day.

My family and I have been through a very bad, personal situation, and now feel that we need to do something to put our past experiences behind us. What can Life Cycle Celebrant Services do to help us achieve this?

Ivor and Elle know that every person and family have good and not so good times.  We will do what we consider best to help you individually and as a group to prepare and deliver a ceremony that will be meaningful and appropriate.  We will listen to you, we will be understanding of your needs and desires, we will care about what you want to achieve and we will deliver a ceremony that will help your family move forward.

 

What types of Life Celebration ceremonies do you prepare and perform?

Normally our services revolve around life celebrations such as Baby Naming’s, Commitment Ceremonies, Renewal of Wedding Vows, Blending of Families, Moving on Ceremonies and the like.  That said, we would be able to prepare and officiate at a ceremony revolving around the funeral of a much loved family pet, the Naming of your new Boat or the Cleansing of your New Home.

3. Funerals

Can I contact you if I have any further questions?

Yes most definitely.  We are here to help you arrange the best funeral ceremony for your loved one.

Dad had a lot of favorite songs how can they be included?

You will need to discuss the music to be played at the funeral ceremony with the Funeral Director.  The Funeral Director will also discuss any video or photo array and the printed program with you.

I want to prepare my mother’s Eulogy but am unsure if I could present it without having an “emotional moment”. Will you be able to present it for me?

I can read the Eulogy you have prepared or you can ask a relative to present on your behalf.  If you would like to read the Eulogy I can teach you a simple technique that was taught to me to control an emotive tear but I will step in and continue if you want me to.

My father served in the Australian military and was a member of his local RSL for as long as anyone can remember. We would like his funeral service to be in keeping with his military background and involve his RSL fraternity.

There is absolutely no problem with that.  Local RSL clubs are always willing to be involved in the funeral of one of their own.  We will work hand in hand with the local RSL Executive and ensure that they are involved so that your father’s military and RSL service is remembered.

My father was a simple man who did not want a big fuss on any occasion that put him in the spotlight. We want a simple Christian funeral service where we as a family and his closest friends can pay our respects to him and his life.

That is quite ok.  We will design your dad’s funeral service around his wishes and celebrate his life in line with those wishes.  It is not always a good idea though to open the floor for guests to get up and express their feelings as it may take away from the mood or the service might go over the allocated time.

My mother was a very good woman but did not adhere to any religion. She lived her life by doing the best she could and tried not to speak ill of anyone. She always made herself available to help others in need and gave generous donations to charities. I think she was a better advocate for Christianity than many people who profess to practice and adhere to the tenets of their faith. When you prepare the ceremony, could you please not make it religious?

Most certainly.  The funeral service is a celebration of your mother’s life.  It needs to define who your mother was.  Your mother sounds like she was a very special woman who had strong beliefs as to how people should live their lives.

 

We have a large family and there are a number of grandchildren ranging from toddlers to teenagers. We want them to be included in some way.

It is important that the grandchildren have a very good memory of their grandfather so we can include the grandchildren in the service in some way.  This could take the form of them placing a flower on the casket or one or two of the older grandchildren giving a two minute tribute about their granddad.  That would be a very moving and loving gesture.

 

What does a Funeral Ceremony entail?

A funeral ceremony usually consists of but is not limited to:

  • An Introduction
  • The Eulogy
  • One or two Readings
  • A Reflection/Prayer
  • The Committal  The Committal can be undertaken at either the funeral home or cemetery chapel, specially chosen Funeral Venue, cemetery crematorium as part of the funeral service or at the graveside.

 

 

Ivor and Elle will discuss your family’s individual needs and ideas so that the ceremony will be in keeping with your family’s wishes.  We will present you with a copy of the ceremony at the conclusion of the service.

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